This is all totally open to discussion, so speak up...
"Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind.
And therefore is wing'd cupid painted blind.
Nor hath love's mind of any judgement taste.
Wings and no eyes figure unheedy haste.
And therefore is love said to be a child.
Because, in choice, he is so oft beguiled."
-- Helena from "A Midsummer Night's Dream" by William Shakespeare